You'd better be a dog in the manger.

你最好成为马槽里的狗。

Somebody called him a dog in the manger.

别人称他是占着茅坑不拉屎的人。

And the discovery that she was the owner of a disposition so purely that of the dog in the manger had something in it which at first made her ashamed.

并且她发现，自己的性情与占据马槽的狗的性情一样，发现这点一开始还让她感到些许羞惭。

" With him: and I won't be always sent off! " she continued, kindling up. " You are a dog in the manger, Cathy, and desire no one to be loved but yourself! "

“跟他在一起，我不要总是给人打发走！”她接着说，激动起来。“你是马槽里的一只狗，凯蒂，而且希望谁也不要被人爱上，除了你自己！”

Not being a dog in the manger, but the happiest fellow alive, I assure you I can dance at Jo's wedding with a heart as light as my heels.

不是马槽里的狗，而是活着的最幸福的人，我向你保证，我可以在乔的婚礼上跳舞，心情和我的脚后跟一样轻。

`With him: and I won't be always sent off! ' she continued, kindling up. `You are a dog in the manger, Cathy, and desire no one to be loved but yourself! '

" 跟他在一起，我不要总是给人打发走！" 她接着说，激动起来。" 你是马槽里的一只狗①，凯蒂，而且希望谁也不要被人爱上，除了你自己！" ①引自《伊索寓言》，指已不能享用，而又不肯与人的鄙夫，即心术不正者。