Or, more subtly, we might have felt unentitled to make a fuss over so-called 'small things' and therefore said nothing, even though, in our depths, the small things mattered immensely to us.

或者更微妙地说，我们觉得自己没有资格对所谓的“小事”大惊小怪，因此压抑着什么也没说，即使在内心深处，我们非常在乎这些小事。