We start knowing only about being loved.

我们只懂得被爱。

Of simply loving and being loved.

仅仅是爱与被爱。”

Many popular places are literally being loved to death.

许多热门旅游地简直被游客爱到不行。

Arthur Capel being the love of her life, and no other man ever came close to replacing him.

亚瑟·卡佩尔是她一生的挚爱，没有任何人能够取代他。

'But it's loving that's the important thing, not being loved.

“但重要的是爱， 而不是被爱。

I'm talking about loving you, about being loved.

我说的是我爱你和你也爱我。

In the choice between being loved and being honest, most of us choose the former.

在被爱和诚实之间的选择中， 我们大多数人都会选择前者。

That way, they start to as-sociate being warm with being loved.

这样，他们就开始将温暖与被爱联系在一起。

The joy of giving and the care that should come with being loved and given to.

给予的快乐以及被爱和给予所带来的关怀。

As adults, without really noticing, we continue to be enthralled to this notion of being loved.

作为成年人，在没有真正注意到的情况下，我们继续被这种被爱的概念所吸引。

And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state of being be loved is intolerable to many.

道理非常简单，人们朦朦胧胧地感到，被人爱的这种处境，对于许多人来说，都是无法忍受的。

At that moment the parting was easy to bear: the first sense of loving and being loved excluded sorrow.

那一刻的离别很容易承受：爱与被爱的第一感觉排除了悲伤。

According to an article on Verywell Mind, unhealthy jealousy is rooted in fear of abandonment and a worry about not being truly loved.

《Verywell Mind》上的一篇文章称，不健康的嫉妒植根于对被抛弃的恐惧和对没有得到真正的爱的担心。

And I think sometimes those things can come hand in hand when you start to embrace being loved unconditionally, you start to then love yourself unconditionally.

我认为有时候这两件事会同时发生——当你开始无条件地接受被爱时，你就会开始无条件地爱自己。

For instance, the idea that women have certain innate characteristics (being loving and nurturing, say) and natural roles that derive from them (wife, mother) is sexist.

例如，认为女性有某些天生的特征(比如爱和养育)以及由此而来的自然角色(妻子、母亲)是性别歧视的观点。

See ye not, she is the scarlet letter, only capable of being loved, and so endowed with a million-fold the power of retribution for my sin?

君不见，她是红字，唯有被爱，才拥有百万倍的报应之力？

This was very pleasant; there is no happiness like that of being loved by your fellow-creatures, and feeling that your presence is an addition to their comfort.

这是非常愉快的；没有什么比被你的同胞所爱更幸福的了，感觉你的存在是他们安慰的补充。

And he having enjoyed that love, that being wanted, that being loved, that being somebody to somebody at the last moment, brought that joy in his life.

他享受了那种爱， 那种被需要，那种被爱，那种在最后一刻成为某人对某人的感觉， 给他的生活带来了那种快乐。

Three hundred million visits also brings up the notion that we hear about today of the parks being loved to death. Right? That's another issue for today's parks.

三亿次的访问量也让我们想起了我们今天听到的关于公园被爱得要死的概念。正确的？这是当今公园面临的另一个问题。

You go out into that place where there's nobody there to perform, and the ego has nothing to do, and it crumbles, and only then are you capable of being loved.

你需要去到一个地方，在那儿没有任何人会是你的观众，在这里你的自尊心毫无用处并逐渐粉碎，只有那时，你才可以被爱。