Victorians had a fear of the primitive and base sexual desires.

维多利亚时代的人对原始和低级的性欲感到恐惧。

Is love a disguise for our sexual desire, or a trick of biology to make us procreate?

还是用来掩饰我们对性的欲望吗？还是说它是身体戏弄我们去繁衍后代的 一个手段？

Helen Fisher thinks the first aspect of love is purely physical – lust, the strong feeling of sexual desire for someone.

海伦·费舍尔认为爱情的第一个方面是纯粹的肉欲，对某人强烈的性欲。

But there's another healthy way to experience sexual desire.

但是还有另一种健康的方式来体验性欲。

But our sexual desire is also fueled by internal stimuli.

但我们的性欲也受到内部刺激的推动。

Lust is a very strong feeling of sexual desire. Someone who is asexual does not feel sexual attraction towards anyone of any gender.

Lust是一种非常强烈的性欲。asexual指对任何性别的人都没有性吸引力。

That is absolutely one normal, healthy way to experience sexual desire.

这绝对是体验​​性欲的一种正常、健康的方式。

Not just sexual desire, but all wanting of stuff and prestige.

不仅仅是性欲，还有对物质和声望的所有渴望。

Especially when it comes from his object of sexual desire.

尤其是来源于他有性幻想的对象。

The 77-year-old spiritual leader urges followers to live a life free of sexual desires.

这位 77 岁的精神领袖敦促追随者过一种没有性欲的生活。

More speculatively, classical conditioning has been argued to be implicated in the formation of sexual desire, including fetishes.

更具推测性的是，经典条件反射被认为与性欲的形成有关，包括恋物癖。

What is new is that more people now acknowledge that women, too, have a right to sexual desire.

新的是，现在越来越多的人承认女性也有的权利。

" Perverted" is often an adjective used to refer to sexual actions or sexual desires that are considered abnormal.

“变态”通常是一个形容词，用来指代被认为不正常的性行为或性欲。

This is not the story we are usually told about how sexual desire works in long-term relationships.

这不是我们通常被告知性欲如何在长期关系中发挥作用的故事。

The thought that a mother, and more broadly, women who are as lovable and admirable as she is must be without sexual desire.

认为母亲，更广泛地说，像她一样可爱和令人钦佩的女性一定没有性欲。

It made the case, while the Victorian era and its mores still loomed large in the popular imagination, that women's sexual desire not only existed-a heretical concept-but burned with an intense heat.

这证明，尽管维多利亚时代及其道德观念仍在大众想象中占据主导地位，但女性的性欲不仅存在--一个异端的概念--而且还在熊熊燃烧。

What's a more clear reflection then is gay sex between two women or between two men, because then you get a pure reflection of sexual desire.

更清晰的反映是两个女人或两个男人之间的同性性行为，因为这样你就得到了性欲的纯粹反映。

And Freud suggested, perhaps not implausibly, that men who believe other men--who are obsessed with the sexuality of other men, are themselves projecting away their own sexual desires.

弗洛伊德暗示，也许并非难以置信，那些相信其他男人的男人——那些痴迷于其他男人的性行为的男人，他们自己正在投射出自己的性欲。

Testosterone, in particular, is responsible for aggression and sexual desire in both men and women, and there has long been the belief that ejaculation draws testosterone from the body.

尤其是睾丸激素，它负责男性和女性的攻击性和性欲， 长期以来人们一直认为射精会从体内吸取睾丸激素。

Although we might think it's harmless facebook monitoring a former partner has been shown to lead to greater feelings of sexual desire and longing for an ex as well as a decreased level of personal growth.

尽管我们可能认为这对我们来说本来没有伤害，但事实证明，监控前度会激发更大的欲望和对前任的渴望，以及个人成长水平的下降。