How could she have even thought he'd be ill bred enough to bring up subjects both would rather forget?

她怎么居然以为他那么缺乏教养，会把两人都宁愿忘却的事情重提起来啊！

If ever, ever he should be so ill bred as to try to take any liberties with her, she would show him.

只要他一旦粗野到对她放肆起来，她就要给他点颜色看看。

" There is no reason why you should not have your nightcap, even if I am ill bred enough to be at home, " he said.

" 我看不出有什么理由你不能在临睡着喝一杯，哪怕我这个人如此没有教养，再随便些也没有关系，" 他说。"

And should a gentleman be so ill bred as to indicate an interest in her, she must freeze him with a dignified but well-chosen reference to her dead husband.

要是有位先生缺乏教养，竟至于表示对她感兴趣，她就得措辞适当地严肃谈起她的亡夫，使对方听了肃然恭敬，并从此死了这条心。