Those who do not deny themselves on that day must be cut off from their people.

当这日，凡不刻苦己心的，必从民中剪除。

But I'm just a poor old woman; I was raised to believe that people would deny themselves for their own flesh and blood.

但我只是一个可怜的老太婆； 我从小就相信人们会为了自己的血肉而否定自己。

The irony is that these same students who are constantly denying themselves that high-density fun are also spending a lot of time checking Facebook, or picking new outfits for their Bitmoji avatars, or browsing dank memes.

讽刺的是，这些不断否认高密度乐趣的学生也花了大量时间来刷脸书，或为他们的 Bitmoji 形象挑选新衣服，或浏览 dank 表情包。

Men, I believe, have a particularly tough time of it, because all over the world they have been socialised to be strong, brave, competent which usually means suppressing or denying themselves vulnerable states, as part of how they identify themselves.

我认为，男性的处境尤为艰难，因为在全世界，他们都被灌输了坚强、勇敢、能干的思想，这通常意味着他们要压抑或否认自己的脆弱状态，这是他们自我认同的一部分。