When relationships are need-based, if what you need does not come, you will start cribbing, you will start complaining, and you will start feeling bitter that what you are supposed to get you are not getting.

当关系基于需求时，如果你的需求没有实现，你会开始变得难受，你会开始抱怨。并且你会开始感到一丝恨意，认为你没有得到应该得到的。