Doesn't look like much of a conversationalist.

看起来可不怎么健谈啊。

But if you actually get this skill you can become actually a better conversationalist, and learn a lot more.

但是如果你能掌握这一点，你就会变成一个大受欢迎的聊天对象，你学到的也就更多了。

By helping people talk about themselves, you're seen as a great conversationalist even when you actually say very little.

让人们表达自我，这样即使你说的很少，也会被视为一个优秀的健谈者。

I want to let you know that not everyone is a great conversationalist.

我想让你知道， 并不是每个人都是健谈的人。

Maybe they're just not a good conversationalist. Maybe they haven't practiced this skill.

也许他们只是不太健谈。也许他们没有练习过这项技能。

John, of course, good fellow though he is, could hardly be called a brilliant conversationalist.

约翰，当然，虽然他是个好人， 但很难被称为出色的健谈者。

As a rule, mirroring means that conversationalists enjoy their communication and that there's a certain level of agreement between them.

一般来说，镜像意味着交谈者喜欢他们之间的交流，并且达成了一定程度的共识。

You're not exactly winning any trophies as a conversationalist, either.

你显然也不怎么健谈。

It will also make you a better thinker, speaker, and conversationalist.

它也会让你成为一个更好的思考者、演说家和健谈者。

In fact, the best conversationalists are those who are prepared to lose.

事实上，最好的健谈者是那些准备输的人。