These emotions lie low in part because they are often too shocking or sad or contrary to expectations for us to want to make sense of them.

这些情绪被我们忽视的部分原因是它们往往太令人震惊或悲伤，或者与我们的期望背道而驰，以至于我们并去不想理解它们。

Fernanda, contrary to expectations, did not reproach him in the least or give the slightest sigh of resentment, but on the same day she sent two trunks with his clothing to the house of his concubine.

费尔南达出乎意料地没有责备他， 也没有发出丝毫怨恨的叹息，而是在同一天将两个装着他衣服的箱子送到了他的小妾家里。