There's a fear of falling in love that young people come by honestly because they often have been given a message from the time they were this big it's education first, it's performance first, it's achievement first, it's ambition first.

年轻人对恋爱的恐惧是诚实的，因为他们从小就被灌输这样的观念：教育第一，表现第一，成就第一，抱负第一。