First, we should adjust ourselves to the new conditions.

一是适应新形势。

We have to learn to accept people where they are and adjust ourselves to handle those situations.

我们必须学会接受人们的现状，并调整自己来处理这些情况。

It is astonishing how quickly we can accept almost any situation-if we have to-and adjust ourselves to it and forget about it.

令人惊讶的是，我们几乎可以以多快的速度接受任何情况——如果我们不得不接受——并调整自己以适应它并忘记它。

We can either accept them as inevitable and adjust ourselves to them, or we can ruin our lives with rebellion and maybe end up with a nervous breakdown.

我们要么接受它们是不可避免的，并调整自己去适应它们，要么我们可以用叛逆毁掉我们的生活，最后可能会精神崩溃。