Let me repeat: The principles taught in this book will work only when they come from the heart. I am not advocating a bag of tricks. I am talking about a new way of life.

本书中所讨论的待人处事之原则，需要我们付出真心去实践。 我不是在倡议处事的技巧， 而是在探讨一种全新的生活方式。