One who seeks the Tao unlearns something new every day.

为道日损。

It's a form of innate or unlearned optimism.

这是一种内在，无需学习的乐观主义精神。

So how can I " forget" or " unlearn" this wanting for pesto?

那么，如何才能让我“忘记”或者“忘却”这种对香蒜沙司的食欲呢？

With help, people who are brainwashed can unlearn this coping mechanism.

被洗脑的人可以在人为帮助下解除这种应对机制。

But, as we grow up, most of us slowly unlearn it.

但是，随着我们的成长，我们大多数人会慢慢忘记它。

The good news is that what is unlearned can be learned again.

好消息是，被荒废的可以重新学习。

So it's going to be very hard to unlearn celebrating on your own.

所以要去独自庆祝这一切是很难的。

And that was the moment we unlearned that other lesson we had just learned a few seconds earlier.

就在那时我们推翻了先前明白的道理。

Your brain would never get that " reward" signal, and your brain would unlearn to want alcohol.

我们的大脑永远都不会收到“奖励”信号，而且会“忘却”酒精。

So, to be a listener who connects with all types of people, we have to unlearn a few things.

要做各色人群的倾听者，我们需要忘记一些事情。