But there is as much loneliness and agony within settled couples around unheld hands, except that here it feels a great deal more embarrassing and more humiliating even to raise the issue.

但是，在未牵手的安定夫妻中， 同样存在着孤独和痛苦，只是在这里甚至提出这个问题都感觉更加尴尬和羞辱。