Once these desires and their consequent pleasures become available to us, then we are no longer rulers of ourselves, but are tyrannically governed by private delight.

一旦这些欲望和随之而来的快乐为我们所用，那么我们就不再是我们自己的统治者，而是被个人的快乐所专横地控制​​着。

Is it unfair to infer, that her virtue is built on narrow views and selfishness, who can caress a man, with true feminine softness, the very moment when he treats her tyrannically?

推断她的美德是建立在狭隘的观点和自私的基础上的，这是不公平的吗？谁能在一个男人暴虐地对待她的那一刻，用真正的女性温柔来抚慰他？