I can't handle a big family talk about this.

我可受不了一大家子人坐在那谈论这种事。

So... today's the day I'm finally gonna have the big talk.

所以我决定今天跟她摊牌。

I've made a lot of cash for this company. I am talking big bucks!

我替这家公司赚了很多钱 而且是大钱！

Well, you are talking big payments even in that instance, for example, 30, 000 dollars worth of debt.

这种情况下涉及的都是大笔债务的偿还，比如，3万美元的债务。

Softly, softly, do not talk so big.

’轻声，轻声，别说那么大话。

So we're not talking big arenas or stadiums.

所以我们说的不是大型竞技场或体育场。

When I would stop to talk, big crowds would form.

当我停下来说话时，就会聚集一大群人。

Look, I've made a lot of cash for this company. I am talking big bucks!

我替这家公司赚了很多钱 而且是大钱！

But you sure talk big, oh, I won't kill you. Go back to your daddy.

但你要是敢说大话 我就不杀你 回到你爸爸身边去。

So, you move up the line. You get to talk Bigs. In Hollywood, these are the people with all the influence and money.

所以，你提高了标准。你开始和大人物谈。在好莱坞，这些大人物有钱，有影响力。

No, indeed, said the little boy, whose face had grown sad when the biggest boy talked of the large loaf. " But you shall take the bigger piece."

是的，不介意，”小男孩说，他刚刚听到大男孩说大面包时，有些伤心，但是，你应该分到大的那块儿。”

And, as a way to kind of get my mindfulness game going, when I'm backstage about to give a big talk, I offer what some might call a prayer.

而且，作为让我的正念游戏继续进行的一种方式，当我在后台准备发表重要演讲时，我会提供一些人可能称之为祈祷的内容。

And being socially courageous means asking that person out, applying for that job, speaking up at that meeting or that party or giving that big talk on that big stage, knowing that rejection lurks around the corner.

社交勇敢意味着邀请他/她去约会，申请这个岗位，在会议或者派对上大胆发言，或者在大场面做一场大型演讲，就算你遭到拒绝的可能性仍在虎视眈眈。