Bowlby and Ainsworth noticed that some children reacted to this separation better than others.

鲍尔比和安斯沃斯注意到，有些孩子对这种分离的反应比其他孩子好。

" You are deserting me" ? " Don't be the neglected, dramatic wife, Scarlett. The role isn't becoming. I take it, then, you do not want a divorce or even a separation? Well, then, I'll come back often enough to keep gossip down" .

那么我看，你是不想离婚甚至分居了？好吧，那我就尽可能多回来走走，免得别人说闲话。" " 什么闲话不闲话！" 她恶狠狠地说。" 我要的是你。