Amir sings the praises of people with secure attachments.

Amir 赞扬安全型依恋者。

This feels like bragging, but I took an attachment style quiz, and it told me I have a secure attachment style.

感觉有点像炫耀哈，可是做了依恋型测试后，结果显示我是安全型依恋模式。

While that may be partly true, recent research has shown that single participants are just as likely as coupled people to have a secure attachment style.

虽然这在一定程度上是正确的，但最近的研究表明，单身的研究参与者和伴侣的参与者一样，也有可能拥安全的依恋类型。

If you were consistently cared for and had strong emotional support, you likely developed a secure attachment style, which means today you are confident, trusting and can comfortably develop intimacy with others.

如果你一直受到照顾，并拥有强大的情感支持，你很可能会形成一种安全的依恋类型，这意味着今天的你自信、信任他人，可以轻松地与他人建立亲密关系。

This lack of secure attachment does wonders for the children in turn: they grow up anxious, eager to please and desperate to attain security through work.

缺乏安全依恋反过来又给孩子们带来了奇迹：他们在成长过程中充满焦虑，渴望取悦他人，不顾一切地通过工作获得安全感。