The " notions" sparked by romantic fiction and Nancy Meyers movies alike are that women's earthly desires-for love, for sex, for chocolate cake, for professional elevation, for pristine Poggenpohl kitchens with white-marble backsplashes-can and should be gratified.

言情小说和南希·迈耶斯电影所引发的“观念”是，女性的世俗欲望——对爱、对性、对巧克力蛋糕、对升职、对有着白色大理石背板的博德宝整洁厨房的欲望——可以而且应该得到满足。