拥女主义（英语：pro-feminism）是支持女性主义理想，但是自认不是女性主义之一份子的主张。这通常是一些积极支持女性主义与性别平等的男性的主张。不少拥女男性都参与妇女权利与反女暴力的政治行动。

认同拥女主义主张的批评者（不论是女性的女性主义者或男性的拥女主义者）会将所有支持女性主义的男性归类为拥女主义，即使某些男性自称是「女性主义」。一些不认同女性主义，也不希望别人以为自己认同女性主义运动的人也自称是拥女主义。

拥女主义为英语"pro-feminism"之翻译，出自刘建台、林宗德所译之《男性气概之当代观点》。

Pro-feminism refers to support of the cause of feminism without implying that the supporter is a member of the feminist movement. The term is most often used in reference to men who are actively supportive of feminism and of its efforts to bring about the political, economic, cultural, personal, and social equality of women to men. A number of pro-feminist men are involved in political activism, most often in the areas of gender equality, women's rights, and violence against women.