Her flattery had already subdued the pride of Lady Middleton, and made an entry into the close heart of Mrs. John Dashwood; and these were effects that laid open the probability of greater.

她的奉承已经压倒了米德尔顿夫人的骄傲，并进入了约翰·达什伍德夫人的内心；这些影响为更大的可能性奠定了基础。

So I'm not suggesting that you take out your calendar and make an entry that says: " From 4 to 6pm on Saturday, I shall have fun." That is a guaranteed way to not have fun.

所以我并不是建议你拿出你的日历，写一个条目：“从星期六下午4点到6点，我会玩得开心。这是保证没有乐趣的方式。