When these fellows are at fault, they come to me, and I manage to put them on the right scent.

这些人遇到困难的时候就来找我，我就设法把他们引入正轨。

You can begin by acknowledging that you are at fault. Take responsibility for the hurt you caused, then reflect on why the event occurred.

你可以先承认自己有过错。对自己造成的伤害负责，然后反思事件发生的原因。

The seeds of resilience are planted in the way we process the negative events of our lives. The first P is personalization—the belief that we are at fault.

不要过分自责，就是说不要把悲伤的原因揽到自己身上。

But separately, I just - I can't imagine any of us want the next generation to think that other people are at fault for our bad behavior and our kind of reactive moments, right?

但单独来说，我只是 - 我无法想象我们中的任何人希望下一代认为我们的不良行为和我们的反应时刻是其他人的错，对吧？