Not only is likability related to positive life outcomes, but it is also responsible for those outcomes, too.

受人喜爱的程度不仅和积极的人生结果相关，甚至就是这些结果的原因。

Respect and likability are not the same thing.

尊重和讨人喜欢不是一回事。

And forget about likability, ladies, women, if you can.

如果可以的话，女士们，女士们，忘掉讨人喜欢吧。

Lou has another trait that is more traditionally associated with likability.

卢还有另一个传统上与讨人喜欢相关的特质。

That's why your likability numbers are down.

所以喜欢你的人数在下降。

While likability can lead to healthy adjustments, high status has the opposite effect.

虽然讨人喜欢可以带来健康的调整，但高地位会产生相反的效果。

You don't have to work against it with likability.

你不必以可爱的态度来对抗它。

I think there's just a likability factor that is going to come into focus.

我认为只有一个可爱的因素才会成为人们关注的焦点。

They feel as if something is wrong, and this hinders your overall likability.

他们会觉得什么东西出了问题，这会影响你的整体受欢迎程度。

Clearly, leadership and likability should not be mutually exclusive for women or for men.

显然，领导力和讨人喜欢对女性或男性来说不应相互排斥。