When pleasers feel stressed or believe that they are continuously letting someone down, they can have a breakdown and flee from relationships.

当取悦者感到压力，或认为他们不断让某人失望时，他们可能会崩溃并逃离关系。

And, Ed says, " Don't let me down." To let someone down means to disappoint them.

而且，埃德说，“不要让我失望。”让某人失望意味着让他们失望。

Maybe you accidentally ate your coworkers yogurt from the fridge, you were late to an important meeting, or you let someone down.

也许你不小心吃了同事从冰箱里拿出来的酸奶，也许你在一个重要会议上迟到了，也许你让别人失望了。

" To let (let) someone down" means to disappoint someone, to do something that does not meet someone's expectations.

“To let (let) someone down” 的意思是让某人失望，做一些不符合某人期望的事情。

However… when pleasers feel stressed or believe that they are continuously letting someone down, they can have a breakdown and flee from relationships.

尽管如此，当他们感到很大压力或他们觉得自己一直让一个人很失望的话，他们就会崩溃，开始在一段关系中选择逃避。

The phrasal verb " to let someone down" or " to let down" someone here means to disappoint someone – not to do what someone was expecting you to do.

短语动词“to let someone down” 或“to let down” 这里的意思是让某人失望——而不是去做别人希望你做的事。

So, to count on someone means to depend or rely or trust someone to do something, and to let someone down means not to do that thing, not to do what you promised to do.

所以，指望某人意味着依赖或依赖或信任某人做某事， 让某人失望意味着不做那件事，不做你承诺要做的事情。