Meanwhile, her relationship with Rivera was tempestuous, marked by infidelity on both sides.

与此同时，她与Rivera的关系也是一团糟，双方都不忠。

None of this is exactly evidence of infidelity.

这些都不能切实证明他有外遇。

Then my destructive voice goes, “can't truth cause stress? For example, the truth about your spouse's infidelity? ”

“真相难道不会引起压力吗？比如，你配偶不忠的真相？”

And when we say " infidelity, " what exactly do we mean?

我们所谓的“不忠”到底指的是什么？

Infidelity -- a violation of trust, a crisis of identity.

婚外情是对信任的践踏， 对自我认同的摧毁。

Now, there are three ways that I think infidelity hurts differently today.

我认为，如今的婚外情有三大罪状。

I will scream about your cruelty, then I will scream about your infidelity.

我会尖叫着告诉大家你的残忍，还有你的不忠。

And I couldn't tolerate infidelity, even if it didn't concern me.

我不能容忍不忠 即使这与我无关。

You know, I recently read a fascinating article on infidelity among penguins. Okay.

我最近读了一篇精彩的论文是关于企鹅之间的不忠行为。嗯。

If you got this letter, you might be thinking about how painful infidelity is.

如果你收到这封信，你可能会觉得不忠是多么让人痛苦。