Some show the candidates in a good light and ask Iowans to vote for them.

一些广告展示了候选人的良好形象，号召爱荷华州选民投票支持他们。

Trust me, this does not put you in a good light.

相信我，这不会让你处于有利状态。

" All that does is prolong the healing process for the other person and it really doesn't put you in a good light either, as the person you are rejecting may feel like you're playing games, " she explains.

“这只会延长另一个人的治愈过程，也不会让你有好的印象，因为你拒绝的人可能会觉得你在玩游戏，”她解释道。

100% of your thoughts where other people are involved is based on " what can I say to fit in" or " how do I act so they view me in a good light" or " are grateful to me" .

当涉及到他人时，你 100% 的想法都是基于“我该说什么才能融入”或“我该怎么做才能让他们对我有好感”或“感激我”。