Rather than being tied to a specific event, these losses frequently extended over many years, deepening each day in ways that grievers could not register.

这些失去并没有与某一特定事件联系在一起，而是经常延续多年，每天都在以悲痛者无法记录的方式加深。

Corporate self-promotion also sneaks into the book's pages, where it does not belong, with mentions of Facebook's power to connect grievers and make the world better.

公司宣传也混进了书里——说Facebook能让悲痛的人互相结识，让世界更美好——这不是本书应有的内容。

You know, our children are often the forgotten grievers, And it's so important -- Here's one of the things: Mourning is what we do on the outside.

你知道，我们的孩子常常是被遗忘的悲伤者，这很重要——这是其中一件事：哀悼是我们在外面所做的。