And better for you so your church friends don't get bent out of shape.

对你也好，这样你教会的朋友也不会发神经病。

A person can get bent out of shape if they do not like the way someone is treating them.

如果某人不喜欢别人对待他的方式，他就会大发雷霆。

A hallmark of narcissistic relationships is the person gets bent out of shape on hairline triggers that mature adults just don't get upset about.

自恋关系的一个特点是及其微不足道的事就会让对方失控，而成熟的成年人不会为此烦恼。

(Laughter) And then what really trips me out is that while that's going on, we're getting bent out of shape over traffic.

（笑声）然后真正让我困惑的是， 在这种情况发生的同时，我们因交通而变形。