I See a lot of people on Facebook everywhere instagram talking about the friendzone.

我看到脸书、ins上许多人整日谈论" 朋友区间" 。

Friendzone them. Be like, Hey, I just kinda really see us as friends and that's really just what it is.

把他们加入朋友群。你可以说，“嘿，我真的只是认为我们是朋友关系，就是这样。”

That is a total lie; I've been in the friendzone more often that I would like to admit.

那是彻头彻尾的谎言；我想承认的是，我经常进入朋友圈。

He moves out of, like, beast-zone and then into friendzone, and then into, like, boyfriend zone with her, I guess.

他离开了，比如，野兽区，然后进入了朋友区， 然后和她一起进入了男友区，我猜。

They say, " She friendzoned me. She put me in the friend zone, " and quite frankly this is a denial of responsibility.

他们说，“她把我拉进了朋友圈。她把我放在了朋友圈里，”坦率地说，这是一种推卸责任的行为。

So the first thing is a mindset thing and oftentimes, guys talk about the friendzone as if it were a place that they got put in by a girl that they like.

所以第一件事是心态问题，通常，男人们谈论朋友圈时， 就好像这是一个他们喜欢的女孩安排的地方。

And what I have to say is that this is a question, quite frankly, that I have no experience with; I've never been in the friendzone and I will never be in the friendzone.

我要说的是，坦率地说，这是一个我没有经验的问题； 我从来没有进入过朋友圈， 我也永远不会进入朋友圈。

Now, there is good news to this which is that if you want to get out of the friendzone, it's not something that she needs to allow you to do — it is something that you can do.

现在，有一个好消息是， 如果你想离开朋友圈，这不是她需要允许你做的事情——这是你可以做的事情。