When I eternalized this idea I became incredibly self-disciplined and motivated.

当我把这个想法铭记于心时，我变得无比自律和上进。

If you want an amazing girlfriend, there are two truths that you need to understand and eternalize.

如果你想拥有一个很棒的女朋友，有两个事实需要你了解，并一直践行。

This is essential to understand, because it suggests  that the self that we are trying to satisfy, escape, or eternalize never even really exists  in the first place.

理解这一点至关重要，因为它表明，我们试图满足、逃避或永恒的自我从一开始就从未真正存在过。