Alpha men go after what they want in life.

阿尔法男在生活中会去追求他们想要的。

An Alpha man flows with the conversation.

阿尔法男很会在谈话中带动氛围。

Believe it or not, there's actually a significant amount of femininity in the Alpha men.

不管你信不信，在阿尔法男身上，其实有相当多的女性气质。

So by this point, you might be asking yourself, am I an Alpha man?

在这一点上，你可能会问自己，我是阿尔法男吗？

So those are the four most important traits of being an alpha man.

所以，这就是成为阿尔法男最重要的四个特征。

And just actively seeking out your purpose is a trait of an alpha man.

积极主动地寻找自己的目标，是阿尔法男的一个特质。

Alpha men will have opinions on topics that they are knowledgeable about and they are not scared to voice their opinions to the people around them.

阿尔法男会对自己所了解的话题有自己的观点，他们不会害怕向周围的人发表自己的意见。

An Alpha man does not have to pretend to be overly masculine to compensate for insecurity and he does not have to pretend to be overly chilled out.

阿尔法男不需要假装太过阳刚来弥补不安全感，也不需要假装过度冷静。

There is a sense of tenderness that goes along with being an Alpha male, which means being calm, relaxed, focused, grounded, and having confidence in yourself are all attributes of being an Alpha man.

作为“阿尔法男”会有一种柔和的感觉，这意味着冷静、放松、专注、脚踏实地、对自己有信心，这些都是成为“阿尔法男”的特质。

Any man who goes around saying this person is Alpha and this person is Beta, really does not understand what being Alpha is, and the very activity of calling other men Alpha or Beta is actually very Beta.

任何一个男人如果到处说这个人是阿尔法，这个人是贝塔，真的是不明白什么是阿尔法，而称其他男人为阿尔法或贝塔的行为，其实是很贝塔的。